Nestled on 126 acres in scenic Rye, New York, Whitby Castle offers a dramatic, storybook setting just 45 minutes from NYC. Modeled after England’s original Whitby Abbey—and even featuring some of its stones—the castle’s architecture is both romantic and historic. With sweeping views of the Long Island Sound, a grand ballroom, and intimate side rooms, it’s no surprise that Whitby Castle is a favorite for couples planning large and small weddings alike.
The venue can host up to 250 guests, with options for both indoor and outdoor ceremonies. From manicured lawns to a sunset terrace, every detail is thoughtfully maintained. The venue offers exclusive use, so you’ll never share your wedding day with another event.
But what does it actually cost to get married here? The Tulle Together Wedding Pricing Transparency Project is on a mission to collect all of the pricing PDFs for wedding venues across the country. All of the PDFs in our database – 2,400 total and more than 450 in New York – are contributed by other couples planning their weddings. That means we can walk through the venue costs for you – without you having to email them. Below, we’ve broken down everything in the pricing PDF to help you figure out whether Whitby Castle fits your budget and your vision.
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Overall Cost Estimate
Let’s start with some total numbers before breaking down each fee individually. We combed through all the pricing details in the PDF to put together some high level quotes using Tulle’s Venue Calculator tool. This tool allows you to put in the most common elements of venue pricing PDFs to figure out the actual total without having to build a complex spreadsheet.
$52,300 for 200 guests on a peak season Saturday
This takes the ceremony fee, required food & beverage minimum, the admin fee, and tax for a peak season wedding on a Saturday.
$21,000 for 100 guests on an off-peak Friday
This takes the required food & beverage minimum, ceremony fee, the admin fee, and tax for an off-peak season wedding on a Friday (Jan – March).
You can calculate the rough estimate of what it would cost to get married at Whitby Castle by using Tulle Together’s Venue Calculator! For the breakdown of the different costs, see below or log in to Tulle Together to access the entire pricing PDF.
Ceremony & Reception Costs at Whitby Castle
Whitby Castle offers both indoor and outdoor ceremony options, including a lush lawn overlooking the Long Island Sound. Receptions take place in the castle’s grand ballroom, which accommodates up to 250 guests, with room for dining and dancing. There are also two private reception rooms available for smaller gatherings or cocktail hour.
While the venue doesn’t have an outdoor reception option, the terrace and cocktail area provide stunning open-air moments before heading inside. Valet parking, coat check, and air conditioning ensure a smooth guest experience year-round.
Venue Rental & Catering Fees
Whitby Castle’s pricing is structured per guest and includes exclusive venue use, a full 5-hour reception, top-shelf open bar, and in-house catering. There’s no separate venue rental fee—everything is bundled into a single per-person cost that varies by season and day of the week.
MAY – OCTOBER:
- Friday Evening: $170/person (150 adult minimum)
- Saturday Evening: $190/person (175 adult minimum)
- Sunday: $155/person (125 adult minimum)
- Saturday Noon: $135/person (100 adult minimum)
APRIL, NOVEMBER, DECEMBER:
- Friday Evening: $150/person (125 adult minimum)
- Saturday Evening: $170/person (150 adult minimum)
- Sunday: $140/person (125 adult minimum)
- Saturday Noon: $130/person (100 adult minimum)
JANUARY – MARCH:
- Friday Evening: $140/person (100 adult minimum)
- Saturday Evening: $155/person (125 adult minimum)
- Sunday: $135/person (100 adult minimum)
- Saturday Noon: $120/person (100 adult minimum)
Thursday Special (All Year):
- $125/person (80 adult minimum)
Ceremony Fee: $2,000 flat rate — includes setup, chairs, breakdown, and a welcome drink station.
What’s Included in the Fee
Here’s what’s bundled with your venue rental and package:
- 5-hour event with top-shelf open bar
- Exclusive use of the castle and grounds
- In-house catering (continental cuisine)
- Bridal suite
- Tables, chairs, standard linens
- Valet service (additional fee applies)
- House vendor meals
- Not included:
- AV equipment
- Optional gratuities for staff and maitre d’
- Specialty rentals or upgrades
How much could your total wedding cost be if you got married at Whitby Castle?
When you factor in everything — from venue fees to vendor costs — Tulle Together’s Cost Forecast Tool projects that the total budget of wedding at Whitby Castle could land around $115,000, depending on your guest count (this estimates a 200 person guest count on a peak-season Saturday), design scope, and other vendor selections. This estimate factors in a range of typical wedding expenses beyond the venue & catering itself, helping couples get a realistic view of what their wedding might actually cost before making any commitments. Of course, someone could spend more or less than this (especially if you go with off-season pricing!) – but it’s an average estimate for what that total wedding cost could look like.
The Cost Forecast Tool is just one of Tulle Together’s budgeting resources. On the website, you’ll find a variety of budget tools designed to help couples plan out their total wedding costs before they book anything. Whether you’re estimating expenses, tracking your spending, or looking for real venue pricing, Tulle Together’s tools provide a transparent approach to wedding budgeting—so you can plan confidently and avoid unexpected surprises. Sign up here for a smarter way to plan your wedding!
Final Thoughts
With such a wide range of pricing options, your total cost at Whitby Castle can vary dramatically depending on the season and day of the week. Opting for a Friday or Sunday in the off-season can save tens of thousands of dollars compared to a peak-season Saturday. Thoughtful decisions around your date, guest count, and experience level will go a long way in shaping a wedding that fits both your vision and your budget. Whether you choose Whitby Castle for your big day or another stunning venue outside of NYC, be sure to check out Tulle Together for a smarter way to budget for your wedding!
Tulle is here to make wedding budgeting clearer, one venue at a time. Want pricing breakdowns for more venues like this? Explore the full collection on Tulle Together’s Wedding Pricing Transparency Project.
Photo Credit: Whitby Castle
